What if you found out that the guy you’re interested in.. was with another lady..?
Most are DYING TO KNOW who it was.
The question, “Is she prettier than me?” leaps to mind.
And the most dreaded of them all:
“What does she have that I don’t have?”
After asking those, REALLY think, ladies — do you really want to know?
I myself, am starting to believe that I really don’t want to know. I’d rather be oblivious to that “her.” Because first off, it’s not like you’re in a relationship in the first place.
So why care?
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What if.. the answer to, “What does she got that I don’t have” is.. “She’s NOT you.”
What if the answer was,”Well, You’re NOT as pretty as her.” or ”You’re NOT as petite as her.” or “I find her more interesting.” or ”You’re too tall.” ..” etc etc.. . whatever.
FACT IS, It doesn’t matter.
Bottom line is: He chose her. NOT YOU.
QUIT beating yourself up about it… Can’t we just… stop?
It’s not the end of the world.
